He is…

Original Image : http://www.flickr.com/photos/ropemonkey/3418110715/

He is a man like none born before,
unique,strange,crazy and still so human.
Breaking through shackles of society and humanity,
he is a man who truly is meant to be.

Where all run after money,fame and prosperity,
he chose freedom from greed and desire and connectivity.
There are many who speak of detachment and spirituality,
he is alone and believes in his ideals and sincerity.

Wisdom,virtue,intellect all big words from the wise,
he speaks what his heart says and not what they advice.
When everyone wants to look smart and hold their heads high,
he walks without a care about what people think of him.

All speak as though they know it all,
he responds when he feels like no matter what they say,
We beg for attention,hope for some reaction,
he is immune to sarcasm and smiles when they rebuke.

Is he for real or just some character in fiction,
was he born in this world or above where heaven is.
All i know is what i see and observe,
he is for real and no man like him can be.

3 Ws :: What Women Want(A woman knows…)

Men will be Men..So anything which takes patience, money, care etc will be regarded as a pain all over.Women are a Mystery for them.I being a woman can say for sure that this isnt true.God created both Men and Women.There is got to be some similarities along with the differences which are highlighted so often!!

First of all let us try and clear our minds of all that we have heard,read,assumed about Women.There are jokes some of them quite cruel and pathetic,jibes about their dumbness(refers mostly to blondes),their dominating attitude and so on.

Can men survive without Women??Yes and No.We Humans be it Men or Women need someone to talk to,fight with,vent out our emotions to.It is always easier to share with a member of the opposite sex.You find it easier to open up.So Men do need Women for that.

All you Men out there,if you are reading this maybe it will help you understand your Woman(its ok if you dont understand your neighbour’s wife ;))

1. Attention Please : Women are extremely emotional especially when its going to be that dreaded time of the month.So it wont hurt to be a little more attentive,caring during those days.

2. I Love You : She likes hearing those 3 words over and over again.I know men may feel it doesnt really matter.Why not say it once in a while even if you feel words dont count.A smile on her face will tell you how much she treasures it.

3. Gift : Yes yes i can sense men raising their eyebrows and saying “There she goes”.I guess you are right unfortunately.She likes receiving gifts especially if they arent something she has begged,pleaded,asked for ;).It neednt be something very expensive like Platinum or Perfume ,even flowers will do.Gifts can be given not only on special days but even otherwise :).So head for the nearest florist or gift shop asap.

4.Time is Precious : Work pressure maybe more,there are deadlines that need to be met and there is the Boss you need to please to get that big Bonus.But just take a moment to think what  is all this for??You earn to live better,spend better and have all that you dream of.If that takes away those precious moments spent in your loved one’s company then do you really need it??Time can be divided and you can always make time for those who matter.Else what you lose can never come back.

5. Who’s the Boss : Women like to have the upper hand in Household Matters. They like doing things their way and it is justified.She looks after the house,keeps it neat and clean,looks after the kids and pets(if any) so she deserves to be the Boss at home.Accept it Men or you had it 😉

6. Mother vs. Wife : Men always compare their wives with their moms.Be it cooking,caring for or anything.Can any 2 individuals be the same?Not possible right.So stop comparing and see each as different and live happily ever after…

This World is made up of both sexes and nothing you do can change that.So why not let your Male Ego take a backseat and try to see things from a Woman’s Perspective.No harm done or do you feel you will lose your Dignity??Think it over and let me know.Am waiting…

Men!!

Something about them makes us want to Be With Them and at the same time Keep As Far Away From Them As Possible.Strange but most women would agree with me in this regard.having studied in a co-ed school i have come across all kinds of men(then boys).Till they attain Adolescence,they are comfortable speaking to girls.But then things begin to change.It maybe because they start looking at girls in a different manner or perhaps its their hormones going Haywire!!!Well,whatever it is it does tend to make them quite uncomfortable and yes not to forget their voice buds undergoing a change which leads to a croaking sound whenever they try to speak(its funny for us but not for the..poor thing).

Then comes the stage when all they want is to have a girl to show off..And mind you it has to be some chic and not some homely simple girl(sister or motherly is what i mean).There is always a competition as to who will get the best or rather the hotttest chic!!!

Then comes the stage when they have to start earning and settle down.Have a family – wife,kids and a packahe deal which includes in laws,cousins,friends and God knows how many people……..This is when a man starts getting restless,when he starts actually thinking what he has done and what he deserves.If he looks in the right direction,then life goes on,if not ……………God save him!!!!

Men want their wives/life partner to be understanding,compromising,adjusting,persevearant.At the push of a button she must satisfy his every need,it doesnot matter if she actually isnt upto it or unwilling.She maybe a working woman,a mother but she should also be a good Housekeeper,available at his beck and call.No matter what she does or how good she is at her work,she is always at fault.And ofcourse the numerous jokes at her cost(you get it on the net always – most are aimed at women esp. wives). It is sad and i can feel it because i am a woman…

Men have so much of Ego that they just cannot think ok women as equals.There is always a clash and that leads to arguments and misunderstandings.But there are men who donot belong to this category. Men who respect women,appreciate them,regard them as equals and treat them well. Though the percentage may not be that high,they do exist and i must say i am lucky in this regard :). Life becomes so much easier when two people living under the same roof are able to see eye for eye.After all we all are Humans and we need to remember that.Life is all about Living In Harmony and Co-existing inspite of all our Differences

 Men you need to Remember…If not for women you wouldnt be in this world.So learn to appreciate them and accept the fact that they too are equally capable of doing activities which you claim is not a Woman’s Job!!!