More than a month i spent with family and friends.Yet i feel i hardly was with them!!Time slips away so fast especially when you want it to slow down,to maybe stop and take a break.I have fond memories of this trip.Somehow it felt different from the earlier one.It could be because i have atlast grown up…

Being an only child has its disadvantages.You dont have someone to fight with,be jealous about,compete with,share some dark secrets so on and so forth.At these times when i am so far away from my parents i do wish i had a sibling. Perhaps he/she would be closer to my parents then.Wishful thinking i know.

Anyways i had a wonderful time and loved being pampered for a change.Eating my favourite foodstuff literally stuffing myself actually,shopping,sleeping and yes drinking in the sun.Yes sunshine is what i really miss.When you open your eyes in the morning after a nice night sleep all you need is the sun rays seeping in through the window and welcoming you into a new day.It gives you a feeling of wanting to dance,to smile,to hope for better things.A cloudy sky can be a real dampner.

All in all i just lived my life to the maximum when i was there….Now waiting for my next trip 😉

Simply Me

If It Is To Be Me,It Is Upto Me“.An interesting saying with a lot of truth.But unfortunately for me,inspite of believing and realising the truth behind this simple thought,i tend to turn to others to know what i am.Wierd it is but that’s me.

We as humans lack nothing.We have looks,brains,attitude and yes we can communicate.Yet we find ourselves many a times in a situation where we are tongue tied.One of the main reasons i have understood or rather observed is we compare ourselves with those around us.These days so many of us have been fortunate enough to have got Quality Education.Engineers,Doctors,Architects,Scientists so on and so forth.But what i fail to understand is how much it actually helps us in being good Humans.Let me put it this way,when someone says he is a Doctor for e.g. does he say it with pride as in does he feel he has achieved something in life which perhaps isnt cakewalk or does he say it with humility just because he is being asked to.How many of us study because we wish to and not because we are forced to or because its something to boast about??Why do we look down upon people who are not as educated as we are??

I have known people who inspite of being not so highly qualified are successful in life.They may not be earning a high income but they are happy where they are and the main thing is they are doing something they are passionate about. Its so nice when you can do what you enjoy doing.It gives you satisfaction,peace,contentment and yes keeps you stress free!!!

This post is dedicated to those of my friends who have had the courage,the will,the strength and dedication to pursue what they desired….Hats off!!!

Do what you believe in,
Live the way you want to,
Chase your dreams and make the Reality,
Care not for what “They” say.

Those who understand will appreciate,
Those who dont will be jealous,
There will be thorns in your path,
“They” will make life miserable.

Dont give up just keep going,
Do your thing the way you know best,
The mirror will show the real you,
That is all that matters

Feelings,emotions…..

A small brain,a big.small body but a multitude of emotions that is within.It is not easy to control our emotions and many a times we find ourselves in an embarassing situation thanks to our outburst without a warning whatsoever. Then there are moments when we donot think before we speak and just end up blabbering whatever comes to mind. It may lead to serious misunderstandings unless the person who is the victim is someone who knows us well enough to understand that we didnot mean what we said.Not always may we be so lucky isnt it??Many a relationships have broken thanks to our unintentional utterances.

I myself have been in this situation numerous times and i regret having said what i did then.I have apologised in case i did realise then itself that what i said was wrong.But not always has this been possible and by the time i came to my senses,it was too late to make amends 😦 . Still regret having done what i did then but learnt a lesson and i try hard not to repeat that again.

Certain emotions especially negative ones like anger,envy,greed,jealousy have a tendency to erupt easily.The best way to control such emotions wold be to first start knowing yourself.Self Analysis is very important and you will come to know what actually trigers these negative thoughts.Once you relaise this,it would not be that difficult to calm oneself or tone down.We always wait for someone to understand us,but we ourselves fail to understand oneself!!! It is a fact because sometimes you realise what you are only when someone actually tells you.The best way to know oneself is to stand in front of the mirror and look at yourself.Ask yourself or rather the mirror what you are.

I am no expert but i am speaking from personal experience.After crying,fuming,fretting,getting angry without actually having any valid reason,i realised(a little late) how foolish i have been.But i am glad i atleast realised this now. “Better Late Than Never”………

According to me some Positive Emotions Would Be:

  1. Joy Best when Shared…it doubles
  2. HappinessTo be felt always…..
  3. ExcitementBe it a small thing,it doesnot matter because for you it might be the most important thing in your Life
  4. PrideNot false pride but pride which is basically felt for your loved ones when they achieve something.
  5. LoveCan also be a feeling but it is one of the most powerful ones.It makes you see everything in a new light.It maybe your parents,siblings,friends,spouse,animals,lover….

Why??????

I wonder why i find it so difficult at times to talk to people who actually care about me.I dread certain questions and certain advice which perhaps is for my own good!!I just dont feel like listening or pondering over what they have to say….

Due to this i have realised now, i have lost many friends and relatives.Its all because of this uncomfortable feeling or rather fear that they may ask me something i have no answer to…..Just hope i can find a way to handle this better soon before its too late 😦

Beginning

A new place,a new beginning,
Life has got a new meaning.
There are hardships,there are sorrows,
There are so many secrets to burrow.

Different people,a different culture,
They belong to a different structure.
There is sadness,there is pain,
A feeling of loneliness again nd again.

Trying hard to settle,
Not easy,tough a little.
But lucky to be here,
Meeting new people is a pleasure.

Friends,family are not so near,
But deep inside they are so dear.
Time to learn,time to absorb,
Time to gain and take off.