A place…

At times i want to disappear.Go someplace where i am all alone.No people to meet,noone to question me,nobody waiting for me.At times i want to be with myself,lost somewhere someplace.In a field or a mountain where i am the only one. I want to vanish,to just float and maybe forget what i am.Is that weird?Am i crazy?I dont really care but i know all of us feel so at one point of time in our lives filled to the brim.We need a place to call our own where no one can follow us,nobody knows.It is a secret we guard in our minds.

I wish i had such a place.I wish i knew if there was such a place…

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Omnia Vincit Amor : : Love Conquers All

Wikipedia defines Love as “an emotion of strong affection and personal attachment”.It also says ” love is a virtue representing all of human kindness,compassion and affection.Love is a word which is most commonly used irrespective of whether the feelings associated with it exist or not.Each of us cherish the thought of being loved by someone special.But it is sad that the real meaning or feeling is missing these days.

We all fall in Love at some point of time in our otherwise boring lives.It is beautiful while it lasts.The heart skips a beat(this is heresay,personally havent experienced that) everything seems wonderful,you notice each leaf,tree,bird and thank God for bringing you into this world.Then one day it is all over.Whatever you adore about the other person suddenly seems so wrong.Each mannerism,each detail seems ridiculous,detestable and you cannot imagine how you even “fell in love” with such a person!!You are irked by his/her behaviour and almost end up hating each other.

What is this emotion that turns a man into the devil??Why do we react so badly after a breakup?Why do we give our all to one person and then hurt ourselves so bad??These questions have no answers.Maybe it is Human Nature.Maybe that is how we are.We like having someone to Love.But we also hate it when things go sore.Coming to terms with reality is almost impossible.

But still we dare to Love and be Loved.Though it is said that when you Love someone you do not expect Love in return,we hope to be Loved.If the feelings are mutual it is paradise,if not it turns to despair and frustration.Loving one’s family and friends is natural and mostly mutual.It is pure and sacred.But the Love you feel for that special someone surpasses it all.It is exhilarating,exciting and everything else takes a back seat.Friends,family and all who meant so much no longer mean that much.All you can think of is that one person and no one else.

What is difficult to understand is “fall in Love” while we actually “rise in Love“. It makes us look at everything differently.The sights which till yesterday were just there suddenly seem beautiful and amazing.”Love Makes The World Go Around” had read this somewhere and seems so true.Everything revolves around that one person.The day begins and ends with him/her. Nights are spent in dreaming and living in a fantasy world.It is a dream that lasts till your Love exists.It is all make-believe and yet so beautiful.

Can you actually fall “out of Love“?? Is  the mind and heart so weak that a person who meant the world to you all of a sudden is washed out of memory??Not possible in real.It is just that we try to fool our mind into believing the worst so that we can come to terms with the loss.But is it not easier to live with memories??Why forget someone just because those feelings are no longer in existence??In reality we never forget,we just let it lay hidden in the dark recesses of our minds.

There is so much that can be said and so much that can be felt but do we really Believe in this four letter word called Love??

Thoughts and suggestions are most welcome.It is a never-ending debate and each one may have his/her opinion and maybe someone will be able to at last solve this puzzle which has been around from the time we came into existence.

Sigmund Freud says ” We are never so defenseless against suffering as when we love, never so forlornly unhappy as when we have lost our love object or its love

Some thoughts:

  • Love is to be in awe of a person with or without presence.
  • Love is an emotion which stimulates a lot of feelings inside your body.It is how uniquely one person stands out and you want to spend you time with him/her
  • Love is a feeling that binds together two separate individuals without Boundary, Limit and Distance.
  • Love is an undefinable Entity.
  • Love is a Medium or a Neutral point from where you can see both sides but you do not realise or rather are unaware of them because you are lost in someone.You have an option of choosing sides or remaining Neutral.

Simply Me

If It Is To Be Me,It Is Upto Me“.An interesting saying with a lot of truth.But unfortunately for me,inspite of believing and realising the truth behind this simple thought,i tend to turn to others to know what i am.Wierd it is but that’s me.

We as humans lack nothing.We have looks,brains,attitude and yes we can communicate.Yet we find ourselves many a times in a situation where we are tongue tied.One of the main reasons i have understood or rather observed is we compare ourselves with those around us.These days so many of us have been fortunate enough to have got Quality Education.Engineers,Doctors,Architects,Scientists so on and so forth.But what i fail to understand is how much it actually helps us in being good Humans.Let me put it this way,when someone says he is a Doctor for e.g. does he say it with pride as in does he feel he has achieved something in life which perhaps isnt cakewalk or does he say it with humility just because he is being asked to.How many of us study because we wish to and not because we are forced to or because its something to boast about??Why do we look down upon people who are not as educated as we are??

I have known people who inspite of being not so highly qualified are successful in life.They may not be earning a high income but they are happy where they are and the main thing is they are doing something they are passionate about. Its so nice when you can do what you enjoy doing.It gives you satisfaction,peace,contentment and yes keeps you stress free!!!

This post is dedicated to those of my friends who have had the courage,the will,the strength and dedication to pursue what they desired….Hats off!!!

Do what you believe in,
Live the way you want to,
Chase your dreams and make the Reality,
Care not for what “They” say.

Those who understand will appreciate,
Those who dont will be jealous,
There will be thorns in your path,
“They” will make life miserable.

Dont give up just keep going,
Do your thing the way you know best,
The mirror will show the real you,
That is all that matters

At The Beginning

We were strangers starting out on our journey
Never dreaming what we’d have to go through
Now here we are and I’m suddenly standing
At the beginning with you

No one told me I was going to find you
Unexpected what you did to my heart
When I lost hope you were there to remind me
This is the start

And Life is a road and I want to keep going
Love is a river I want to keep flowing
Life is a road now and forever
A Wonderful journey

I’ll be there when the world stops turning
I’ll be there whenthe storm is through
In the end I wanna be standing
At the beginning with you

We were strangers on a crazy adventure
Never dreaming how our dreams would come true
Now here we stand unafraid of the future
At the beginning with you

I knew there was somebody somewhere
Like me alone in the dark
I know that my dream will live on
I’ve been waiting so long
Nothing’s gonna tear us apart

 In the end I wanna be standing at the beginning with you

 

Anastacia : : OST